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While many kids naturally and spontaneously develop many of their skills through uninstructed play, it is equally common that some children have difficulties developing some of their abilities without guided assistance. It may sound like such a serious, strict term, but sometimes it’s more than enough to take an hour or two every day to play with your kids in a way that will boost their learning.

On the other hand, some kids would benefit from professional occupational therapy and school programs that implement other activities intended to help your kids improve their memory, learning capacity, attention span and fine motor skills among many other abilities. Before they set foot in a classroom, however, there are some fun ways you can help your children and prepare them for the adventures of handwriting!


Finger string games


It’s surprising how much effect such a simple technique can have on your kids’ motor skills! Teach them to play games with strings, and they will quickly boost their hand and wrist muscles, their fingers will become more nimble and their hand-eye coordination can also improve.

Cat’s Cradle and other finger games have proven to be beneficial for your kids’ brain development and can in turn help develop their handwriting. These games help kids gain a better understanding of numbers, encourage literacy and they achieve this effortlessly because kids just see them as incredibly fun.

Construction skills

The first that come to mind are definitely Legos! Not only will these colorful bricks keep your children occupied and focused for hours, but they will also strengthen their fingers, and develop their imagination. Manipulating small pieces and arranging them into meaningful forms helps kids develop those tiny hand muscles that play a vital role in learning how to write.

Another way to help them perfect their constructing skills is by playing with train tracks and puzzles that are also extremely useful for their brain and muscle development. Kids that easily lose interest in other activities tend to get lost in puzzles and Legos for much longer periods of time, which is an added benefit for their motor skills.


Arts and crafts


Some kids will gladly play with coloring books and pencils, while others would gladly create homemade jewelry with macaroni, strings, cereals, cheerios, beads, and other materials. Either way, spending time doing both types of activities and combining them can significantly improve your kids’ writing abilities. For instance, kids can use those “connect the dots” sheets to first outline the given shape with a colorful fineliner and then cut them out with scissors.

When the picture has many small, curvy shapes and fine edges, your children can have tons of fun by using differently colored fineliners and coloring pencils to fill out the drawing. Coloring, following the outline with scissors, gluing and making their artsy pieces can improve their dexterity, coordination, and muscle strength, which will ease them into writing their first letters.

Play-dough

Still an irresistible playing item, even for grownups, play-dough is a brilliant learning tool for encouraging your kids’ creativity, imagination, but even math skills and literacy. This wonderfully squishy substance allows your kids to shape, squeeze, press, poke, roll it, and do many other wonderful things to it that boost their palm muscle strength, hand-eye coordination, focus, and dexterity.

Play-dough is one of the most versatile learning tools your kids can safely play with because you can introduce all sorts of additions, such as branches, leaves, and pebbles from nature, or anything from your kitchen cabinet that can be mixed with it, such as pasta, rice, straws, chopsticks, or those tiny things you have no use for such as buttons, glitter, and strings. Add a few cookie cutters, alphabet shapes or simple glasses, and you’ll have an endless source of fun!


Nurturing your kids’ fine motor skills with playful and fun activities they love can have a significant impact on how your kids will master some of the most basic life skills, including handwriting. Help them develop the strength in their growing hands, fingers, palms, and elbows. Also, encourage them to use tools like scissors independently and patiently, take part in some of their games and monitor their progress, and you will quickly see how fast kids can learn.
School work will always be very important for your child’s growth, but don’t neglect their constructive playtime activities that will serve as wonderful learning tools and only help them progress even faster!











We survived the entire school year after the hilaan, kumbinsihan, and iyakan period that lasted for almost a year (hehe).  As I've always mentioned in some of my previous posts, Chesska is shy to many people as she's only comfortable with her own territory (I mean our house) where she feels a lot safer and can do anything she wants to do. Until now, she remained afraid to dive outside her comfort zone. That's why when I sent her to a regular and big school several months ago, I knew that dozens of challenges awaited her as a pupil,  and for us as parents.

But the one-year challenge is finally over! 

Despite the tough times that Chesska had been through,  she was able to finish her school with Flying Colors. Well, I was already expecting it long before I received the school's program the day before the Recognition Day in which her name was written as Third Honors. In fact, Chesska was a consistent honor from the first grading up to the third grading period, so being Third Honor in the class is no longer a surprise.

So last week,  I took a leave of absence just to attend my child's Recognition Day,  giving academic and meritorious awards to children who only not excel in IQ but in EQ as well. I was so ecstatic to accompany my child march on the stage and personally place the medal on her neck. And we couldn't be more proud!
3rd Honors and Most Behaved Awards

We were pleasantly surprised when she was awarded as the most behaved in school, where in fact at home she's the most energetic (lolz).

Chesska's classmates
I know, Chesska is not yet graduated from this challenge for she has a long road yet to take and many foods to crave. But we assure her of our 100% support, undying love, and care so she can survive in this crazy world that we live in.





We are officially entering the summer season and I hate to admit that I don't like hot weather. Aside from it makes us sweat and uncomfortable all the time, it also started to take a toll on our health. In fact, around three weeks ago, my older daughter suffered from whooping cough and we all terribly got infected (our house was very noisy as we barked altogether. hehe). Then one week after, my two girls got a hand and foot disease as I learned it usually occurred during summer time as this.

However, there's something fascinating in the summer season that we are always looking forward to, that is to find a haven to cool down and take a fresh air in our system.  Agree?  So when my mother-in-law told us to scout a place for our family outing, the first thing that immediately entered my mind is go somewhere that is cold and refreshing. Until our neighbor, just next door suggested Dhen Yho's Place whom she and her family just recently visited.  Never had I heard the place before but when she gave a positive review about it, we decided to give it a whirl!

From Toril, Davao City, it took us 1 hour and 30 minutes trip going to Brgy. Kapatagan, Digos using a private car. We arrived at around 8:30 in the morning and great thing that we're able to capture the country's highest peak, Mt. APO clearly without the interference of the clouds yet.
Magnificent View of Mt. Apo

Lee Family
Two hours later, the peak was already covered with clouds (as seen in the picture above). Your adventure is never complete without taking a vivid picture of Mt. Apo so our timing was just perfect!
Two swimming pools for adults and kids. 
We had to take a dozen of steps descending to the swimming pool. I didn't bath as the water was very cooold. Moreover, the area is highly elevated so we got a splendid bird's eye view of Brgy. Kapatagan, surrounded by lush scenery and mountains.
Capture from the Swimming Pool


Kublai Art Graden

Just beside the Dhen Yho's place is the Kublai Art Garden, where the artworks and sculptures of one of the popular artists of Davao City, Kublai Milan, can be found. We felt like we're at the highest peak of the mountain where clouds and sky are almost reachable. The place is serene, cool, and beautiful, just perfect for the busy people like us who like to unwind for a little while. 

One of Kublai's Artworks
Agung House
Dhen Yho's Cottage for 500 pesos
Road Going to the Center of Brgy. Kapatagan
Dhen Yho's Canteen
Function Hall
I genuinely love the place and the weather is cold all day but getting to Dhen Yho's place is a little bit of concern for me as the road is very steep and you have to go through a lot of curves up and down (piso na lng pamasahe para langit), which is not safe for children. If you drive your own car, make sure it is in good condition and to fill the tank as there's no gasoline station along the way. The path going to the parking lot of the resort is rough and uncemented so some car owners just left and parked their cars downstairs. Obviously, the resort is not yet fully developed and there are still lots of parts to improve so they can attract more tourists to visit.

Dhen Yho's Place is located at Kinambulan, Brgy. Kapatagan, Digos City.  You may contact them through their Facebook page.

Entrance Fee: 25 pesos

Swimming pool:

   100 - Adult
     50 - Kids

Cottage: 500

Tent: 100

No Foods Corkage







A weekend ago, my friends at the same time my fellow and former teachers of Davao Central High School where I taught for five years organized a reunion to welcome our very dear friend, Anelyn. We haven't seen her for over two years as she's been living in the US with her husband who is an American and at the same time a doctor. So each time she is planning to come home, she never forgets to give us a buzz - of course, our usual venue to exchange conversations is through group chat on Facebook.  So my friends decided to have a gathering at Camella's clubhouse, just a few walks away from the Camella condo where Anelyn and her family chose to stay for a month.

I'd like to share our photos and I feel great to see and spend time with them again knowing they are very busy with their own lives and careers now.
Just grabbed this photo from Luisa through her Facebook account (hehe).
Sorry, I was not there in the picture because I arrived very late in the afternoon as I still had an online job. I was surprised when they invited our former principal, Ma'am Celia Andas (one sitting down), as we used to be afraid of her due to her intimidating presence and strict administrative style towards teachers. But as seen in the picture, it seems that the atmosphere was cordial and relaxed (hehe). I was not able to catch up her as she went home early.
From left to right (standing): Matt (Anelyn's husband), Anelyn, Cheryl, Ma'am Celia, Imee, Vanessa, Rachel, Luisa, Marivic, and the kids.
 I requested to have a group picture again with me and I noticed we are getting fat-sign of progress.
Our original plan was to stroll Chesska (in pink top) at the mall with my husband while mother and I would stay at the clubhouse but when Chesska saw the children swimming, she became teary-eyed and wanted to swim already. Since I did not bring her swim suit, I just let her soak what she wore that day. Then my husband rushed to the nearest mall to buy clothes. 
Taking a picture in front of the condo building.
Mother and Baby Psalm
Our Pasalubong from Anelyn
Chocolates and Victoria Secret Lotion







I am fond of reading books! This is absolutely one of the hobbies that I'd like to pass on to Chesska who is about to finish her pre-school (thankfully) this coming 3rd week of March. As much as I want to teach her how to read in advance, I had no idea how to begin doing it until I stumbled upon an article over a couple of weeks ago which says, the most basic way of teaching children how to read is just simply read with them over and over again.

We used to read books together during my free time and her fondness towards books was evident as she loved flipping the pages, naming pictures, and even pretending reading.  But ever since I gave birth to Psalm, then resumed to my work, we weren't able to do this routine again. I felt guilty for not spending quality time with her as you know I am wearing hats simultaneously. But just last weekend, I had a lightbulb moment that if I would not continue the things that we were used to be doing, she might be losing her interest.

So starting last Monday up to now whenever I am free, I began to read with her again especially before she took a nap in the afternoon or before going to bed at night. It feels so great to see my child smiling and having the feeling that she was given the attention that she needed.


By the way, here are the books that we kept on reading by Read at Home which we bought at Booksale, SM Ecoland for 150 pesos only. Excellent finds!

Well, one of the books that captured my attention was Kipper's Weather Week by Roderick Hunt. The book tells obviously about the weather and days of the week, just in time with Chesska's lesson last week.  Another one is The Spaceship.  Inside the cover page, I saw some helpful reminders how to teach children about reading and I am so pleased to share them with you.

Children learn best when reading is fun.


1. Talk about the title and the pictures on the cover.
2. Discuss what you think the story might be about.
3. Read the story together, inviting your child to read with you.
4. Give lots of praise as your child reads with you.
5. Try different ways of helping if they get stuck on a word. For example: read the first sound or syllable of the word, read the whole sentence, or refer to the picture. Focus on the meaning.
6. Re-read the story later, encouraging your child to read as much of it as they can.


Reading with my child is a great opportunity for me not only to make up the time I missed with her but also making her feel that reading is fun and she will learn and discover a lot from it.







Seems like it just happened yesterday when you were born. Exactly today marks your five months of being a baby. Your progress is quite amazing and I also notice your aversion, too.
You have been purely breastfed for 5 months now. I attempted several times to give you formula but you found the taste awful because you spit it out. That's why wherever I go, you always cling to me.
I am a hands-on mom to you, changing your diaper, bathing you, washing your butt when you poop and nursing you even I am working on my laptop. I did the same to your sister when she was a baby like you.

You seem to enjoy bathing so much since you were 1-month old. You cry at the top of your voice whenever I take you out from the bath tub.
When someone entertains you even strangers, you give right away your 150-watt smile, the trait I dearly love.  Unlike your older sister who only smiles to people very close to her. But I don't want to compare you both. I know you are both unique and special in different ways.
You can now turn, roll over, and try to crawl forward. You begin to pull tiny things, too.
You also begin to babble when you hear us talk. You say "aaah-aaah-aaah". I know I have so many things to discover about you as you get older. 

Did you know that your sister is jealous of you? She feels like you steal our attention and love that once she owns. She doesn't stop pinching you nor stop teasing you until she hears you cry and I am always there to defend you.  I am hopeful that when the right time comes, you will become good siblings. I believe you will be.

We love you as much as we love your older sister and I hope when you discover this post someday, you will appreciate this, and I know you will.



Love,

Mama





  






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