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Before you take the moment to read this blog post, please check the 1st part of our Bukidnon Escapade so you can connect my stories. We actually first visited Amaya View which is located at Indahag Hills, Cagayan de Oro before visiting Crumbs and Country Food Park. My sister-in-law said this place is the boundary between Bukidnon and Cagayan (just correct her if she's wrong hehe), so we took the short route from Camp Phillips to Libona in order to get there. Although we had already passed Crumbs and Country Food Park during our trip which is located in Kiliog, Libona, we decided to go first to Amaya View as it was the first choice of everyone. 

However,  we were a little frustrated because it was raining non-stop while on our trip going to our destination. It took us almost an hour before we got there because we got lost as our Waze App messed up. But all of our little frustrations were eased when we got there and were greeted by fog while at Noah's Ark, one of their amazing attractions. It is said that this resort is located at the highest peak of Cagayan De Oro to allow you to see the perfect view of Cagayan de Oro City. Let me share with you our photos. 


As you can see, it was drizzling at that time, and one of our props was the umbrella while taking pictures. But in a little while, that rainy moment somehow turned into a foggy morning, which was very timely. 












Just near the Noah's ark is the Skyewalk where you can see the view of Cagayan de Oro City. So sad that this amenity was closed because of the rain.  Here are the photos I grabbed from their FB page.

credit to the owner
image credit to the owner

And here we are. hehe

After Noah's Ark and Skyewalk, we went to Riley's Hill. We rode the resort's shuttle to take us there. 










We would have visited a lot of their amenities if it hadn't rained. But we promise to go back there next time to avail their room, enjoy their food,  and try their overlooking swimming pool. 

It's best if you avail their all-access offer so you can enjoy your visit there. 
credit to the owner






For two years, since the covid-19 outbreak began, we're not able to travel often. I used to go out with my family when I felt stressed at work or I needed to have a mental break. But when the pandemic started, it impacted so much our everyday routine. For example, Chesska, my older daughter, had to stay at home for two years for her online class. Also, our mobility outside our home is limited due to covid restrictions and we couldn't bring our kids when we went to the mall for grocery shopping. Thankfully, when the covid cases started to decline in March,  we right away seized the opportunity to travel with kids.  

We chose Bukidnon because we had traveled here many times before as my brother is working at Del Monte located at Manolo Fortich. Whenever we wanted to have a long vacation, we just stayed at their house. So without further ado, I would like to share the tourist spots we've been to. We visited one of the newest tourist destinations in Kiliog, Libona Bukidnon called Crumbs and Country Food Park.  The ambiance has a country feel as if you were situated in Western Country. I loved the place because it was really a stress reliever especially if you are living most of your life in the city.  The nature, fresh air, and green sceneries are soothing to the senses. Here are our photos below.

























If you are planning to visit here, just use your GPS (hehe) since I didn't really know the exact location. All I had to do was ride in the car while my husband was driving.

Here's the entrance fee:

Adult: P80
Kids: P40
Horseback Riding: P200 (3 rounds)

They are also serving foods if you want to dine. Their restaurant's name is Chelly's Restaurant just within this venue. 






During my pregnancy period, I suffered from unwanted skin issues such as darkening of the forehead, armpit, neck, and much worse my abdomen, which almost all pregnant women went through due to hormonal changes. However, right after giving birth, skin discoloration did not completely disappear. Some warts are becoming more obvious. So I tried using different kinds of products on my skin but seemed ineffective. Until I met someone, a Mary Beauty Consultant, who invited me to join their free facial session located at Philam Bldg., Ground Floor,  along Rizal St. Without a doubt, I accepted the invitation since I wanted to know what skincare products would fit my skin type. My main concern was that I wanted the blemishes on my face would be, at least,  minimized. I didn't concern much about my stretch marks, anyway,  I could hide them..hehe
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While at the facial session, the Beauty Consultant Director, explained first the basics of skincare,  before introducing the Mary Kay products. She stressed that there are 5 essential steps in caring for skin.

1. Cleanse twice daily. Whether you like it or not, each day,  you have been exposed to dirt, dust, pollutants, and other impurities,  so you need to cleanse your skin. It is recommended to cleanse your skin before going to bed. Don't sleep with your make-up still on.

2. Exfoliate two to three times a week. There are dead cells that build up in our skin that simple cleansing cannot remove. So using exfoliating products can eliminate dead cells that block the pores and dull the skin.

3. Freshen - Have you ever noticed that some parts of your face are darker, and some parts are brighter? Some parts of your forehead are oily,  and some parts are dry? Your skin tone is not even. Well, most cleansing and exfoliating products can help even out your skin tone.

4. Moisturize once to twice daily. I have just learned that lack of moisture can cause wrinkles. Oily skin is less likely prone to wrinkles since it produces plenty of moisture, while dry skin is vulnerable to wrinkles because it lacks moisture. So it is recommended for dry skin person to lavish moisturizer to add more glow to the skin.

5. Protect as needed- protect the skin from the sun and environmental stressors through the use of foundation and sunblock. Foundation can prevent dirt from entering your pores that cause pimples,  while sunblock can protect skin from UV rays that cause sunburn and other skin issues.

"Aha" Moments...

After the facial session, I came to realize that my beauty routines were incorrect. Mary Kay has given me the right direction on what steps I should take to improve my skin. In my next post,   I will reveal what Mary Kay products I've been using.

Final Words...

None of us wants to look old and wrinkled? Right? Pampering your skin is like pampering your baby.  It needs extra care and attention in order to have great and baby-looking skin.

I hope this post helps you, and don't forget to like my Facebook page. Thanks a lot!





Toys aren't just for playing, they are actually learning tools for your child. Providing your baby or toddler with hands-on games through manipulative toys or even a simple game "hide and seek" will help optimize your child's brain to learn.
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As the first teacher of your child, you are responsible for nurturing and maximizing his overall development - mental, social, and physical.  I strongly believed that every child is a genius but in a different way. Agree? Of course,  with our proper guidance, we can help bring out the best in him. Who knows? He can be a future Scientist, a future Musician,  a future Artist, or maybe a future Hollywood Actor.  So allowing him to manipulate with different stimuli (toys) will help you determine his best potential.

Here are some of the best educational toys that I would like to recommend for babies ages 3 months to 1 year old. 

1. Multicolored Stack Cup 

This toy will help your child identify colors, shapes, and numbers later on.  It will also encourage logical thinking, creativity, and sequencing by stacking, unstacking, sorting out, organizing, and combining two shapes to form another shape or any idea your baby can come up with.





2. Musical Instruments

Want to have a musician wannabe? Then include any musical instrument in your baby toy's list.  Babies are very much attracted to different sounds. When they hear a piece of music, they respond to the rhythm by dancing or rocking their head. According to studies, there is a correlation between academic performance with children who are exposed to music. It vitalizes parts of the brain that are related to reading, math, and emotional development."





3. Plush Toys 

Aside from entertaining, it also develops interaction and communication skills for your baby.






4.  Picture Books 

Introducing this early to your child will help her identify texts, colors, and objects fast. Babies love looking at pictures and turning the page from one to another as if they understand and know how to read.





5. Ride-on Vehicles

No kid who doesn't love riding. He would love to explore the "OUTSIDE WORLD" aside from the four corners of your house. At this age, you can let him ride a trike (three-wheeled vehicle.) Aside from developing his gross motor skills, he will gain confidence as soon as he learns to run the trike by himself.






6.  Shapes Fit Puzzle 

Aside from helping babies to learn different shapes,  it will also help develop their logical thinking skills and make them become persistent problem-solver. It doesn't matter when your baby cannot shoot the right shape to the hole because he would love to try out things again and again until he gets the tricks. Just be cautious that some shapes are small for your baby to put in her mouth.





7. Balls

Babies love to follow objects in motion. Once they grasp a ball, they love throwing, rolling, and kicking it, then he will pick it up to throw, roll, and kick again. It is just fine because you are helping to develop his gross motor skills  (eye-hand coordination). You also help him to develop his physical skills.







Final Thought:

Toys don't necessarily be available in the baby's toy shop, there are in fact available just within your house such as real-life accessories - your ladle, spoon, cardboard boxes, remote control, cans, empty plastic containers, drinking cup, and some unused stuff which are even more fun for them than their expensive toys. Anything he held tickles his imagination. Just always keep your eye on him as one of his habits is putting things in his mouth.  So what's your role as a parent? You are his biggest fan who always appreciates as you watch him learning.




















To be honest, I felt scared months before I turned 40 because I thought I was getting old. But when I meditated and looked back on how I overcame the struggles and trials I've been through in the past years and how I become victorious in life today, it made me realize that being forty is a GIFT. A gift from God that is not given to everyone. Sure, I may not be able to do the things that I used to do when I was in my 20s and 30s, but I believe I can still do something as I enter this new season of my life. 

I've been through many difficult things in life in 40 years. For example,  I didn't have happy memories as a child because my father was a drunkard person and he always beat my mother every time he got home drunk. On top of that, we struggled financially and my parents could not provide us enough food on our table, could not buy what we wanted, and could not send us to a good school. When I was 12,  my father died and my mother had to work hard to raise us until we finished college. In fact, I couldn't count the problems, struggles, and tribulations we had been through at that time, but thankfully,  God had delivered us from those situations. 

Out of those experiences, I learned a lot from them and it benefited me until today. Here are the 40 lessons I've learned since turning 40. 


1.  Family does matter. Friends just come and go in your life but family sticks with you up to the end. 

2.  Failures and mistakes are life's lessons to make us better and stronger. 

3.  Refuse to give up. It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. 

4.  Each of us is unique. God gave each of us a talent, gift, and ability to do the things he asks us to do. 

5.  Trials and tribulations in life will help you build your character and be spiritually mature. 

6. Don't be jealous of others' success.  Look at them as inspiration instead. 

7. Be grateful all the time. Be grateful that you can still breathe, walk, talk, have your visions, being able to sleep and wake up. 

8. Enjoy your husband, kids, and your home. 

9. Your past will not determine your future.  It's not how you start your life, it's how you finish it. You can always have a fresh start. 

10. Practice delayed gratification. 

11.  Learn to say no. Don't overcommit to people or things to avoid stress.

12. Be a God pleaser, not a people pleaser.

13. The devil is real and He's the one who gives problems and troubles in our life to distract us from our fellowship with God. 

14. Battle begins in the mind. A negative mind produces negative life. A positive mind produces positive life. 

15. Pray for those who mistreat you and be quick to forgive. Remember, God is a God of justice and He is our vindicator. 

16. Don't be somebody you can never be. Be who you are.

17. Slow down. Live life one at a time. 

18. Be a constructive critic.

19. Don't control your kids.

20. Spend some. Save some. Give some.

21. Don't put your money in one basket. 

22. Patience is not about waiting. It's about your attitude while you wait. 

23. There are slow people to test our patience. So be patient. 

24. Education is a continuous process. Keep on learning.

25. Don't trust too much. 

26. Cast all your cares, concerns, and worries to God. 

27. Don't expect too much from people. 

28.  Be led by the prompting of the Holy Spirit not by the impulses of the flesh when making a crucial decision. 

29. Self-control and discipline are important in order to be successful in life.

31. Let your YES be YES and NO be NO. Have a word of honor. 

32. You cannot change a person. Only God can change him/her.

33. You can trust people but do not expect that they will not disappoint you.

34. You cannot be a happy Christian at the same time be selfish. 

35. Some people I know who called themselves Christians are miserable. 

36. Your 100% trust belongs to God alone. 

37. Emotions are fickle. Don't live beyond it. 

38. God gave us the spirit of love not the spirit of fear. Don't be afraid to step out in faith. 

39.  Don't take life too seriously. Have fun, be naughty at times, and throw clean jokes to break the ice. 

40.  Eat healthily. 

I hope you enjoy reading my blog post. If you learn something, don't be shy to comment below and share your thoughts. Have a good day!


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